Oh my God I'm so sorry I didn't know that he passed away, that's
There are no words, sorry isn't enough but I'm sorry all the same.
[ And that her last memories of him are...that... ]
Even if it was a prank, I'm sure you didn't mean for it to go that far. It was probably something harmless that went really out of hand, but, you never meant to hurt anyone with it. I think that the sooner you come to terms with the fact that it was an accident the sooner you can forgive yourself.
When we were kids, I was playing with my sister one day, and I got into an accident and had a pretty bad head injury. And after that accident happened, our entire relationship changed, partly because my parents sort of separated us afterwards and partly because she was so wrapped up in being guilty over what happened that she thought she could never have, like, an actual relationship again. She totally blamed herself for it, even though it was just a mistake. Thought she didn't deserve my forgiveness. It took years before we were able to actually talk about it, because I actually didn't remember anything about it since, y'know, hit in the head. No one would tell me anything either, when I was young, like, one day she was there and the next she was just gone, in her room all the time. I didn't even know there was an accident until not too long ago, believe it or not.
But I wish she had told me so much sooner. If I'm totally honest, I don't know if she's completely forgiven herself yet for what happened, even though, y'know, I obviously forgive her completely because it was just an accident and we were so young...actually, no, she definitely hasn't forgiven herself yet.
[ She knows Elsa has nightmares about it, still, even, what is it? 15 years later? ]
But she definitely deserves forgiveness, and she deserves to be able to forgive herself. She knows I'm there for her. You have people there for you, too, I'm certain of it. Everyone who caused that prank, you're all carrying that weight together, so I hope that you all move forward as a group and help each other and yourselves. That'll make it easier, I'm sure! Stick together as friends and talk it out with one another. I'm sure that will help.
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There are no words, sorry isn't enough but I'm sorry all the same.
[ And that her last memories of him are...that... ]
Even if it was a prank, I'm sure you didn't mean for it to go that far. It was probably something harmless that went really out of hand, but, you never meant to hurt anyone with it. I think that the sooner you come to terms with the fact that it was an accident the sooner you can forgive yourself.
When we were kids, I was playing with my sister one day, and I got into an accident and had a pretty bad head injury. And after that accident happened, our entire relationship changed, partly because my parents sort of separated us afterwards and partly because she was so wrapped up in being guilty over what happened that she thought she could never have, like, an actual relationship again. She totally blamed herself for it, even though it was just a mistake. Thought she didn't deserve my forgiveness. It took years before we were able to actually talk about it, because I actually didn't remember anything about it since, y'know, hit in the head. No one would tell me anything either, when I was young, like, one day she was there and the next she was just gone, in her room all the time. I didn't even know there was an accident until not too long ago, believe it or not.
But I wish she had told me so much sooner. If I'm totally honest, I don't know if she's completely forgiven herself yet for what happened, even though, y'know, I obviously forgive her completely because it was just an accident and we were so young...actually, no, she definitely hasn't forgiven herself yet.
[ She knows Elsa has nightmares about it, still, even, what is it? 15 years later? ]
But she definitely deserves forgiveness, and she deserves to be able to forgive herself. She knows I'm there for her. You have people there for you, too, I'm certain of it. Everyone who caused that prank, you're all carrying that weight together, so I hope that you all move forward as a group and help each other and yourselves. That'll make it easier, I'm sure! Stick together as friends and talk it out with one another. I'm sure that will help.