That 'friend' sounds like they were going to go off the deep end eventually no matter what you did. What they did isn't your fault, though. You couldn't have known what would happen, and while you did do something stupid, stupidity doesn't justify that kind of revenge plotting.
I think the plot is far, far worse than the accident. You're perfectly justified in being angry. I would be upset at that 'friend' too.
I think the only way to move forward from that kind of thing - and you absolutely shouldn't beat yourself up forever - is one step at a time. The fact that you're thinking of it so carefully is a point in your favor.
The past can't be changed, but the way you respond to it absolutely can.
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I think the plot is far, far worse than the accident. You're perfectly justified in being angry. I would be upset at that 'friend' too.
I think the only way to move forward from that kind of thing - and you absolutely shouldn't beat yourself up forever - is one step at a time. The fact that you're thinking of it so carefully is a point in your favor.
The past can't be changed, but the way you respond to it absolutely can.