[Rakka hasn't gone anonymous, mostly lending to the fact she doesn't know how. But this is something she doesn't particularly care about having her name attached to.]
Hi. I guess you've already got people giving your advice about this, but I guess I wanted to say something. I think it is your fault, but also... isn't. I mean, not directly. It was an accident, even if it was started by being really mean towards the people you hurt. But, that doesn't mean someone should try and get back at you in the worst way they can. Even if they think you deserve it, that doesn't feel right.
And forgiving yourself... is hard. But I know it starts with understanding what you did, but I think that's something only you can figure out.
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Hi. I guess you've already got people giving your advice about this, but I guess I wanted to say something.
I think it is your fault, but also... isn't. I mean, not directly. It was an accident, even if it was started by being really mean towards the people you hurt.
But, that doesn't mean someone should try and get back at you in the worst way they can. Even if they think you deserve it, that doesn't feel right.
And forgiving yourself... is hard. But I know it starts with understanding what you did, but I think that's something only you can figure out.