If forgiving means forgetting, then yeah, you'll never get there. Not about the incident and not about what it's done to you and others, either. What can I say? That stuff sticks.
But if it's accepting what you've done - the act and the consequences - taking responsibility for it, and working to be better in the future? That's possible. Hard work, but possible. And eventually, working to be better starts defining your life more than whatever it was you've got to be better than. That's the closest people can get, I think, to really letting things go.
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But if it's accepting what you've done - the act and the consequences - taking responsibility for it, and working to be better in the future? That's possible. Hard work, but possible. And eventually, working to be better starts defining your life more than whatever it was you've got to be better than. That's the closest people can get, I think, to really letting things go.