It doesn't sound like he asked or even brought it up, either. So is it your fault for not telling him because it was uncomfortable or because you thought it didn't need to be said or is it his fault for assuming the worst of you instead of trying to clear it up in a rational discussion between two grown ass adults? And then coming up with his plan and trying to hurt you more anyway?
If you still want to blame yourself, I can't stop you, but just consider that it's stupid to think you were totally responsible when there were so many other mitigating factors. And if you think you deserve some proportionate punishment for your part in it, your debt looks fully paid from where I'm standing.
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If you still want to blame yourself, I can't stop you, but just consider that it's stupid to think you were totally responsible when there were so many other mitigating factors.
And if you think you deserve some proportionate punishment for your part in it, your debt looks fully paid from where I'm standing.