I'm thinking - and I'm not saying you have to do this with me, you can pick whoever's giving you the answers that make the most sense - but I'm thinking you could get an extra pair of Pokégears, make sure they each got the other's number entered in, and then keep one and leave the other for your penpal somewhere you agree upon. That way neither of you knows who the other is.
[York, why...why have you been thinking about this. What kind of false identity have you been thinking about setting up.]
BLATANTLY STEALING THIS FROM ALEX AND DAL SORRY
[York, why...why have you been thinking about this. What kind of false identity have you been thinking about setting up.]